STUNNING REVEAL: Wild Outrage As Pickleball Community Is Hit With ‘Elite segregation’, As Picklers Culture Dwindles…’What Nobody Wants to Admit About the Elitist Culture Killing Pickleball For Others’

Pickleball’s Soul Is At Risk—And It’s Not Because of the Game

I’ve devoted years to this sport—coaching countless players, competing in tournaments, training with pros, and investing time to help others improve. I still love the game. But lately, there’s a feeling I never expected to wrestle with: embarrassment.

Not because of pickleball itself, but because of a growing toxicity in the culture.

It’s not about newcomers, flashy paddle designs, or the constant evolution of gear.
It’s about ego.
Exclusivity.
Status obsession.

Let’s stop sugarcoating it: pickleball elitism is creeping in—and it’s threatening to kill the very spirit that made this sport special.

What Happened to “All Are Welcome”?

Pickleball thrived because anyone could show up and play. Age, background, athletic history—it didn’t matter. A paddle and enthusiasm were enough. There was a real joy in that simplicity.

But now? Walk onto certain courts and you’re met with an invisible hierarchy. If you don’t look like a 4.0+ player, you’re ignored. If you’re not fluent in the jargon, you’re mocked. Use an “off-brand” paddle? You’re dismissed as a joke. I’ve seen people judged—seriously—for the shoes they wear.

This isn’t what the game was built on.

The Rating Madness & Elitist Mindset

Let’s talk about ratings.

Some players now won’t even share a court unless DUPR scores match within decimal points. Rec games turn into petty battles over line calls. And God forbid you’re a 3.0 on a “serious” court—the eye rolls and whispers begin:

“He plays like a 3.2 at best.”
“She doesn’t belong here.”

It’s exhausting. There are high-rated players with no respect, and low-rated ones who show up with heart, positivity, and a drive to improve. I’d take the latter any day.

Pros—You’re Not Helping

Some pros are making it worse. Their content caters only to “competitive” players. They complain about beginners “ruining games,” charge premium prices, then act annoyed when less experienced players attend.

The message they send? If you’re not elite, you’re invisible.

But here’s the truth: this game doesn’t belong to the pros. Or the 5.0s. Or anyone who thinks their rating gives them authority. We’re all fortunate to play. Let’s not forget that.

Let’s Return To What Matters

The best communities aren’t built on perfect rotations or elite-only play—they’re built on kindness. On cheering each other on, embracing newcomers, and remembering the joy that drew us in.

So next time you play, ask yourself:

• Did I welcome someone?
• Did I make them feel like they mattered?
• Did I leave my ego behind?

If not, maybe you’re contributing to the problem.

This sport doesn’t need more walls. It needs more connection. If we guard that, pickleball won’t just survive—it’ll thrive.

Share this with someone who needs the reminder. Let’s bring the soul back to the court.